Dear sisters (and brothers?),

Please forgive me for being so lax with this blog. In truth, after returning from my summer studies and jumping into ministry, I didn't see too many responses to the blogs I had offered, so it appeared therefore that others were also otherwise absorbed. But a couple of you have prompted me nicely, and I will try to keep in touch.

I invite you to read the entire Biblical book of Esther. It concerns a heroic woman who saved the Jewish people through her courage and her gifts. Veeda Javaid from Pakistan's Presbyterian Education Board preached today from this text, and she described the "can do" attitude of faith.

Her sermon struck me personally today because I am challenged. Session has decided to put the issue of same-sex relationships and marriage on the table of discernment for congregational dialogue. As my core values revolve around hearing God speak through dialogue and the Scriptures and prayer, I am gratified at our Session's leadership. But I grieve how tough this is for some in our church. Some are gay or lesbian, or have children or grandchildren who are gay or lesbian. They have hurt for a long time, and while they have joy over the dialogue, their pain surfaces. Others have been raised traditionally, and struggle with the question of same-sex marriage while they also want to share the love of God. All are good people of good conscience, and all are in need of my affirmation and encouragement.

Complicating these questions is a denomination, equally struggling, that contradicts itself at every turn for the best of reasons, and I mean this sincerely and lovingly.

We will need courage to walk this path of dialogue with kindness, intelligence and faith. These are all gifts from God, and I pray that God will give these gifts freely. I pray for wisdom, compassion, and gentle speech for me. I can do this, God willing.

What are your thoughts? More generally, in what arena do you need God's gifts and a "can do" attitude?